If the finale is always a performance, when do we actually get to enjoy the show?
Faking it can protect egos or keep the vibe alive but long-term, it keeps you from real pleasure.
Faking is usually about protection, yours, theirs, the mood. But when the act becomes the pattern, you miss the real thing.
If it feels safe, talk (outside the bedroom) about what feels good, what doesn’t, and what you’d love to explore. Truth is still the sexiest toy in the drawer.
Ever faked it? Let us know.
