If the only standing ovations are solo, is it because they’re not listening or because we never learnt to direct the show?
Couples who talk about what feels good report the highest sexual satisfaction. You’re not alone. You’re not broken. And you’re not doing it wrong.
Solo orgasms can feel easier because there’s no audience, no pressure, just you, your body, and your rhythm. They come without performance or distraction.
The key with a partner isn’t “trying harder.” It’s slowing down, guiding gently, and making space for play instead of pressure. You already know.
